On the other hands there are things that I just can't do. We have a pool they can swim in... they have been in it 4 times all summer. I just can't take them by myself. I don't even feel bad about this one because safety is the main issue. Right now we don't go to the park that much because with them walking but not really being aware of their surroundings it is really hard. Ben usually sticks close by, but Penny is everywhere. But there are definitely times they both want to go completely separate ways to explore. This is really hard for me. Now I can say this is a safety issue as well, and to some extent it is, but mainly it is a sanity issue. I just can't handle it at this phase in their development. I also think before I do anything "How is this going to effect the schedule?" We are very scheduled people and it's hard for everyone to waiver from that schedule.
I guess I will never have the answer to this questions, but I always wonder... Is having twins really that different?
What do you think?