On the other hands there are things that I just can't do. We have a pool they can swim in... they have been in it 4 times all summer. I just can't take them by myself. I don't even feel bad about this one because safety is the main issue. Right now we don't go to the park that much because with them walking but not really being aware of their surroundings it is really hard. Ben usually sticks close by, but Penny is everywhere. But there are definitely times they both want to go completely separate ways to explore. This is really hard for me. Now I can say this is a safety issue as well, and to some extent it is, but mainly it is a sanity issue. I just can't handle it at this phase in their development. I also think before I do anything "How is this going to effect the schedule?" We are very scheduled people and it's hard for everyone to waiver from that schedule.
I guess I will never have the answer to this questions, but I always wonder... Is having twins really that different?
What do you think?
Sure its different! Its got to be a lot harder than having 1! Mine arent twins but they are all right at 1 year apart my last 2 only 11 months lol
ReplyDeleteI hear ya though things are more difficult. We go to the park a lot. We pick a park that is small and i can see easily everywhere. We literally go to the park at least once a day when its nice bc its the only place i feel like they can run wild and i can just sit and watch them.
Good luck sister!
I don't know how you do it. You are amazing.
ReplyDeleteThey don't call it double trouble for nothing! Part of it is their age. I avoided the park all summer because Addison wasn't big enough to do anything without help which made playing with Claire very difficult. Save the park for when Daddy can help!
ReplyDeleteMy mom had four girls, one set of twins. I'm the oldest and the twins came next, I'm pretty sure she would agree that it is definitely different!
ReplyDeleteMy sister has twins & I can tell you that yes. It is very different!
ReplyDeleteI don't know, since I don't have twins, but I would imagine it is VERY different. You have two that are going through the stages at the same time. You don't have a 1st time for {fill in the blank} and a few years later another 1st time...and a few thoughts on how to react differently. I can only imagine some things would be nice, like one time of no sleep for the first two years, but other things would be difficult, like feeding times through the first few years.
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